The Gift of Unconditional TLC

Happy Sunday! I hope you enjoyed Valerie’s take on what we can all do to raise awareness in Friday’s post. Since the awareness mojo is already flowing, I thought I would share the article I wrote for New Life Outlook that lists ten more ways you can help raise lupus awareness. Click on the screen shot below and let me know if you have any ideas of your own to add to the list!

awareness article

It’s Victoria Day long weekend here in Canada, so many of us are at the cabin, campgrounds, or settled in for a comfy and relaxed few days at home. Where I live, May long weekend is notorious for giving us heavy rain or as is the case this year, a chance of snow (shudder). Yet, regardless of the forecast, there remains this determination and will to unwind, come hell or high water. The drudgery of daily life can be a black hole, so we cram all that TLC into small pockets of time; long weekends, Christmas holidays, vacation time. Somehow we believe that our worlds will balance in that small amount of time, which is why vacations can sometimes feel more stressful than relaxing. Even in our leisure time, we put pressure on ourselves to achieve instead of letting ourselves relax without conditions.

I like the idea of unconditional TLC, but I am realizing that putting that into practice is another thing entirely. I’m currently on a self-gifted, extended break to recover from several energy depleting months. I am two weeks in and I filled the entire first week with volunteer commitments and the second week, I managed to assemble a schedule that was just as busy. It’s a different kind of busy, which I think is okay, but I need to give myself some time to unravel and breathe first. No avoidance, no conditions, no need for justification, just BECAUSE.

Do you feel like you have to justify the breaks you give yourself? Are you able to create space in your life for “long weekend moments” everyday?

I know my posts have been few and far between in the last little while and most have been around information sharing of various kinds. I’ll be jumping back into my storytelling-focused posts very soon, I promise! In the meantime, I hope you all create some space today for some unconditional TLC!

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